Dealing With Fam-nemies..

Haiii...

How's life?

Still, not so well outside...

I won't discuss about virus or whatever related to the world today,

I am just... Dissapointed.

We all have family who love us unconditionally.

However, what about having Fam-nemies in our life?

I am just creating this phrase, "Fam-nemies". I didn't know whether this phrase has been exist before or not. anyone? have you ever heard this phrase somewhere maybe? 

I think that is so suitable for people who are literally having family relationship with us but make bad of our days. You have relation with them, but they are so annoying.

In order to keep the family relationship, you still have to keep being nice eventhough you want to throw up because of their act. And the most cringy thing isssss you can not move away from this condition. We have to grab up the reality and smile just like "everything is okay, Darlinggg dadar gulinggg...

I am so tired 😥..

Very exhausted...

To "follow" their rules..

okay, this is my blog, and of course All the things here are based on my personal opinion and so subjective. 

My husband and I always try our best to keep the relationship with them. But, they always go further with their act. I wonder why there are such people having bad tempered and so annoying. 

Actually, I do hate a "two-faced" person. They love to "lick" others. They will be super nice to us when we have done something that giving benefit to them. And becaming so annoying when we are no longer profitable for them. Naissss... or Najisss... Iuhhhh....

Naudzubillahiminzalik for becoming such person...

Munnafiq is one of the most hated character by Allah SWT. Hope that we all grow in good path and able to avoid all the stupidity above. 

In decision, maybe I am doing wrong if I call them fam-nemies but that is the truth. I have to deal it along my lifetime, damn... 

My mother had told me how to deal with such person. First, if you think you are brave enough to beat them, do it! You have rights to stand up youself upon them. Yet, you think that you aren't brave enough to defend you self, just pull off yourself and take down all your action. It's better for your mental health. Just put off all the things about them for example, dont save their phone number, dont be curious about their status, dont try to search everything related them. Then, your life will be more peaceful I guess...

I've tried it so many times, it's hard exactly to deal with Fam-nemies. In addition, when you are not mature enough to face the situation. You have to choose the right action. and then feeling tired.

Honestly I am kinda giving up my self but my husband always support me and giving some advice although it still doesn't work. 

The fact that you can not avoid this messy, you have to put them in the back-EST priority in your life. Come onnnnn, just make them as an useless shadow. Your life is more precious. Your family that love you unconditionally are more important to think. 

It's exactly not easy, but just give a trust that Allah always listen to Us, to our prayer and believe that Allah will help us. Everything here is written. Wish that they (your fam-nemies) can go better.

Hemmmm....

Cheer up...

Be happy...

Your life, your rights, your decision to be happy or unpeaceful all the time...

See ya in the next post...