Wanna have One? Two? Three? or A Hundred Kids?

Hayyyy, Mommies...
Nicee to see you,

Yes, it does. I go to this blog whenever I am feeling upset, buahahaha... frequently, sorry...
And I think this is one reason why I write blog 🤣.

First of all, I wanna ask you a question. How many kids that you have?
One?
Two?
Three?
Ten?
I am just asking you how many?
I dont ask you "why you just have one?"
"why you just have two?"
"why you don't make a football team for pleasureee?"
Thanks A LOT...
We often conduct those kind of question just for trying to be chill out...
Oh please, would you like to pleaseee asking other questions?
We have soooo manyyy other questions to chill one another.
For me,
I am not comfortable when some people ask (literally asking but a lil bit pushing 😥) me to have more children.
I am a mom with a four years old daughter.
I am happy,
I love my life now,
I enjoy it,
That's it.
and When you all see I haven't had another baby yet, of course I must have the reason why.
Even when I don't have any reason and trying to have another baby, it's not right to ask "why you dont try to have another one?" question.
Come on guys
Having kids is one of someone's private area.
It's no joke to have this question or even push othets to have more children.
It goes same when we ask a single person "when will you marry, darling?" in the fact that she/he is struggling to find their soulmate to marry,
or asking a couple "When will you have babies, dear?" in time that they are struggling to have a baby.
Got it?
That's a lil bit unpolite to ask those kind of questions.
Honestly,
I am so done and tired everyyyy time people around me asking ang persuing me to have another baby.
Thankyou,
I am enjoying my life now,
My daughter grows well, I start to enjoy a fun time, a little bit relaxed, with less cry and I begin to enjoy my mommy-time.
I am not saying that I reject Allah's Rizqi,
But I am not sure enough to get pregnant again.
I dont want to have too much responsibility.
I want to be focus on my only daughter and get the best path for her life.
and Labor got me so traumathic😭.
Please, if you say that's okay bla bla bla,
heyyyy you, we are absolutely different person.
Delicious for you but maybe not delicious for me.
That's not that good, guys to push around others even it's just for mambo jambo.
You have two kids? that's your right
You have three or five children? that's also your right, Darling and I don't even care your desicion why you have ten children. That's your life, you're happy with that, or you're unhappy, it's your life.
There is no rules to have more than one child, sm I right?
Then why it looks so nasty to just have a child in your life?
Comeee on 😝...
Ahhh, enough...
I am sharing this story to discuss with you guys,
Let's take a moment and think deeply,
It's also self reminder for me,
You wanna have mambo jambo, think twice what you say to others.
Don't go too far in their private life.
Remember, every person must have a reason when they decide to do something.
Have a good sleep, everyone.
See ya in the next post 😊...