Your Judging vs Allah's Judging

Hayyyy...
Love to be back at this page...
Anyone miss my trashy stories???
Hahahaha, why am I so confident...

So confused where I should begin the story today.
We will have a glance discussion about the value of life this time.

Please to not be mistaken, I am not a life motivator as Mario Teguh or Merry Riana btw wkwkwkwkwkw. I will just want to.share my uneg uneg.

Sometimes, when I listen to my friend's stories, my relatives' stories, I often get some identical main problem. We, as human, have a very big problem with other's judgement.

How do you get your self-value??
How do you judge your own self whether You are including a good person or a bad person???
How do you see your self through your life???

Okay, we may have mirror, but reflecting our own self and deciding whether we are good or bad are difficult things to do.

For you who have a very high confidence, you will exactly say that you are a good person no matter what. but, for me, that's not just a simple case.

Then, where will we go to decide it??
We may see our reflection through others' opinion.
When a person doesn't like you as a whole packet, it means you are not a good person for him/her.

People easily judge our own self just by looking at our surface from our social media, or by a short glancing. Then they will judge us "uhhh she is a bad person" "uuhhhh she is not religious enough" "uhhh she is a bad mom" "dont make friend with someone like an evil I mean like her". and all the judgement comes frommmmmm a short screening through social media and even you all meet rarely 😑. That's freakingly confusing, sooo confusing...

How comeeee heyyyy Bambang.
Even your mother who give you birth and take care of you along her life sometimes still cannot refer your characteristic 😑...
And then there are some people who judge you easily just by looking you at a glance,
Heyyyyy, you dont see her/him in 24 hours 7 days and every minute of his/her life.
And you call someone bad or good, it's like you who has problem on attitude and manner.
I think its only Your God who knows you well.
I am a moeslem.
Just me and my Allah who know me very well. My hubby, my mom, my sisters and even my daughter my own family who stay with me everyday may still don't know me (njobo njero).
Allah is Veryyyyy Kind,
It's only Allah who can judge human's sin and human's fine reward by doing good deeds or bad deeds. and I think all religion teach that kind of lesson.

Who are you taking the judgement easily???
You even dont create him/her.

I remember an old proverb says "people see what they want to see"
very subjectional, and not so fair because of many factors.

Okay, its your choice to choose who will be your inner circle. but it's so unair to judge others good or bad and being done with them like a sh*t 😳.

She may not put in a well properly halal wear, but you dpnt see her when she love to share with others and she doesnt like to show it off.
She may talk carelessly and loud and orough, but you dont see her when she try to be sincere to everybody she meets.
You just dont know,
and you still easily judge others,
so unfair,

It never goes wrong to be kind to all people you meet,
Keep your private opinion for your own,
When you think you can not get along with someone, keep it, dont put your judgement directly and being like you are the most right person in the world, like Javanese says "kemersik".

I take it as my self-note also. I will also try to be kind and good to everyone I meet and I know, talking without underestimating others, low profile and not being such a "mrs. know all the things" person.

A mom who give micin to her child doesnt mean she doesnt love her child. We just dont know how she struggle to get her child eating up thr food. we just dont know how she had struggled to cook many kind of food to make her child open up her mouth. we just dont know.

Stop judging just by looking at a glance.
Try to respect others.
Life will be sweeter if we respect each other.

Hahahaha, I write too much I guess,
It's been late,
I will stop it here,
Let's continue next days, Pretty Mommies...
Stay safeee...